If you have been traumatized in areas such as physical, sexual and mental abuse, for example though not limited to abandonment, being fostered or adopted out or suffered the effects of affairs, experienced abusive relationships. This book has been created as a self-help insight and guide in human behaviors based on personal life experiences, regardless if it's from your childhood or adulthood. You may have constantly heard you are stupid, dumb and you will never amount to anything. Its finally now having the knowledge and strength to say NO confidently in any situation, and being able to walk away owning your power, without feeling guilty or the thoughts of, have I done or said something wrong. There are true life events to give significance and understanding of why and who you and others are today. Whether you are the abuser or the victim. Learn to become the survivor by learning through communication also your thought, feelings and belief processes. All too often you hear motivate yourself, you are insecure, you lack confidence, you have baggage. How can you be confident when you have all this trauma buried deep down holding you back? Let's work on a lot of your hurt and insecurities, by regaining you. We are all living and performing different roles such as mum, dads, bosses, career people, trades person, movie stars, volunteer worker, Policeman, Doctor, husband, wife from any walk of life. Most of us are confident in our roles and acknowledge we do a great job, as we have been trained or and studied in our specialized area. While we are continuously performing our role routinely every day, some of us believe we are still the same confident person away from our role. Ask yourself, are you as confident as the person away from your role? generally most people are not, can you confidently and comfortably talk with new people at a party? talk to someone at the shops? can you quickly strike up a conversation when introduced to someone new? do you feel confident in going for a job interview? do you feel confident when talking to your boss or someone in a more superior role than yours? While we put much importance and effort into our job to perform and achieve our goals. How much time and effort do we put in for ourselves, for example to study and discover why we have become the person we are today? what is our real inner self really wanting to be. Also learn by discovering what really holds you back in the things you wish to achieve further than you have today. Learn how and why what triggers responses and actions to yours and others behavior, by defining, understanding and separating your position and your ego personalities to who you are as an individual. What is important is knowing who we are as a person, what formed us as a person. We are all here for the same thing, love and acceptance, most of us are unconsciously/unaware that deep down, it is love and acceptance, is what we are really searching and yearning for. A longing to belong. This book will help deliver enhancement to confident decision making and empowerment for yourself also healthier relationships with other people in your life. Some of the key subjects are listed below, Mind versus the inner self, Ego, Forgiving, Trust, Victim role, I am a survivor. Confidence, Feelings, Fear, Relationships and interaction with others. Sexual and physical abuse true life stories and how to become the survivor. Dating for men and women, Internet dating, Pointers for men and women, Male and Female interaction, Relationships with others, Children learn by example, I have a new boyfriend or girlfriend, understanding relationships with deflection behaviors. How does one become a deflector, Letters to an abuser and silent partner. What does it look like being a deflector? Ways of communication and deflecting can play itself out. In most cases love will override stubbornness, embarrassment and pride. Reversing projection is reversing your mindset, plus 7 real life cases scenarios.