I'd like to ask you.... Have you been in a relationship may be you have been thinking was serious that ended because he told you that he loved you but wasn't "in love" with you? Did a man spend days or weeks trying very hard to get close to you and as soon as you started to have feelings for him, get distant at once? Are you trying to attach yourself to a man who isn't yet sure you're his "forever" woman? You probably try everything you can to get a man's interest and care, including being helpful, nice, sweet, sexy - but nothing works to make him want and love you in that special way you wanted to be loved? If you answered yes, I know exactly how you feel. How you can turn your relationship from hell to heaven I think that I have a problem with self-esteem maybe I don't have it at all. It looks like I have been attracting the wrong man for me. You have to be able to recognize if this guy is not for you. After spending a few years with my last partner whom I have loved so dearly, our life together sank into the toilet - there was no sex, no love, or so it seemed, and no real communication. I was miserable all the time. What started out as a magnificent relationship I will always remember, turned into a terrible nightmare. A couple of months ago I found myself once again in a very disturbing situation: the beginning of breaking up a long term difficult relationship. As a mother I couldn't afford to fall apart. So I started investigating Why and How not to get where I found myself in my life. I did spend a lot of time studying my personal behaviour in all my past relationships. I even went further and investigated my Mother in her relationship with my father, whatever I can remember. I also looked at my daughter's present relationship with her friend and her behaviour. I spent a lot of time like this, also reading a lot of books. I went through website after website looking for what to avoid and for advice and information. So I END UP reading, studying and gathering wisdom from professional sociology in particular relating to personal development: in theory, but also in severe personal experiences. And much of it to be completely honest creates a very sad picture in my mind. In seeking remedies, I have achieved disillusionment: a picture of NO ESCAPE. Thank God! I shall persevere with the task. Nevertheless do not want to underestimate my efforts, because I gained so much by going through this complex journey, learning many realities of which I had not been aware. The various processes gave me great opportunities to equip myself with life tools called 'knowledge'. I also learnt that the end is always a beginning, beginning of opportunities and anticipation of the unknown. And the anticipation of the unknown is bountiful in itself. I discovered that the door of life opens again as it closes, revealing a panorama of wondrous opportunities called "The Beginning and the End" . Most significantly, the beginning is always the more dominating force which should overthrow the past. Also I learned that time we invest in our relationships is priceless and we must use it wisely. Every moment presses on us. I adapted what I learned as gradually it became so clear to me. How I Become that magnetic power which Will Turn Him Into The Loving, Devoted, Committed Life Partner I Want Him To Be and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. You can become that woman who gets all men around her instantly and deeply attracted wherever she is. You can generate this power even with men you are not getting on very well with. Have a think about it. Could you imagine him loving you so much, even wiling to do anything to be next to you? Does not feel very real, but you and I know there are women all over the world who are having just that experience! And they always around and more then sure you know one or two personally.