How famous women can deal with their fears and defeats reaching high levels of self-love? If you want to discover their secrets, then keep reading....

Self-love is similar to happiness in some ways. They are both words we weigh down with endless expectations. They are also the words we tend to place in the future.

Here is a bit of good news and bad news. Nothing outside of yourself is the ticket to be achieved self-love. This means the roots of self-love are already inside of you, right now. This also means you cannot expect to change your body, your job, your partner, or your address to automatically fill you with the love and happiness you seek.

But let us kick the guilt, shame, and fear to the curb before they have a chance to take over here. Self-love can be difficult. And it is especially difficult when society teaches us that our lives need to be perfect and also effortless. We need to be easy going and down-to-earth, but also on top of every tiny detail of our lives. When these thoughts make up your mental dialogue, do you see how failure would be so much easier than success? Do you see how the self-critique would be so much easier than self-love?

So, let us adjust our expectations. Let us discover the roots of self-love inside of us and rewrite a more realistic internal dialogue that helps them flourish and thrive.

If self-love is not this impossible, yet effortless thing, we are all struggling to understand, how can we redefine it in a way that might provide relief rather than anxiety? My definition is below; however, I encourage you to pause here and write out a definition of the kind of self-love you are striving for.

This book covers the following topics:

• How Famous Women Who Have Had Disadvantages in Their Lives Have Managed to Overcome Obstacles!
• The Equation of Self-Love
• Why Be Inspired by Women Who Have Achieved Success with A Touch of Selfishness?
• Why in Some Circumstances Do We Have to Put Ourselves Before Everything Else First?
• How Famous Women Take Care of Their Bodies

... And Much More!

One of the most important things to realize is that this process will be different for everyone. You can take bits and pieces from this book and apply them to your experience, but ultimately, your experience is yours. Each piece, including your definition of self-love, should be crafted with a language that resonates best for you.

My definition of self-love is nurturing and accepting yourself in the present moment, despite any urge to lean into shame, guilt, or fear. It is the act of continuing to stand up for yourself in this way over and over again, no matter how tempted you are to critique your own flaws. Self-love is not a state of eternal bliss that we arrive at one day. It is instead a repeated action.

If you feel very far away from this definition, know that this is perfectly normal. So many of us struggle to love ourselves each day. This is because we have learned that paying more attention to our fears and flaws will keep us safe. Our fears tell us that we are lacking in some way, and every time we listen to that, we reinforce and strengthen this negative thought pattern.