This book is designed to impart knowledge and understanding of the harsh and destructive reality that Rejection and Low Self-esteem can have on the human mind, body and soul. Once you take the time to read this book, comprehend the contents and be willing to apply the directed suggestions and strategies, it will help you to rise above your current harmful emotional barriers, and set you on a pathway of wisdom, faith, courage and strength which will assist you in attaining the spiritual level that God intended of you.
Decide in your mind not to stay where rejection and low self-esteem have placed you. It's time for you to exit the closet of fear. Come out from behind your tree of rejection, uproot your mindset from the ground of low self-esteem, and plant it into the soil of validation and appreciation of yourself to the glory of God. Low self-esteem is a betrayal scale of high esteem, which the devil created to deceive us into thinking negatively about ourselves. If you don't maintain God's validation and appreciation of you, then your mind will be captivated by the devil's and other people's devaluation of you. What your mind-set accommodates, your emotions will accumulate and showcase. If you are afflicted and affected by rejection or low self-esteem, you must dig deep and find the courage to overcome. Stop believing rejection and low self-esteem's evaluation of you.
Make it your duty to avoid situations that will compromise your self-esteem and expose you to rejection. Whenever you choose to agree with the feelings of rejection or low self-esteem, your conversations will become similar to your sentiments. If you're feeling good about yourself, then your communication will be entirely positive. However, if you allow low self-esteem to control your mindset, your conversation will naturally be negative.
When others, including yourself, perceived that there are no better for you to gain in life, you will always be a prisoner of rejection fear and low self-esteem. You need to decline such deposit from entering into the vault of your emotion. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, rise up and prove the enemy and yourself wrong, by choosing to stand your ground against any Goliath situation that challenges your expectation of success.
You might feel alone in combat with rejection struggles, but you are never standing alone. God is present to help you, through his grace, you will defeat your Goliath of anxiety, rejection, low self-esteem, depression and every failure.
The pain of rejection can become applicable when you give your all into a relationship, only to be informed by that person whom you love, that he or she is not willing to reciprocate your feelings. It even hurts worse when said without any valid reason. It can cause you to experience sleepless nights, loss of appetite, weight gain, listless feelings in the home, at work or school, depression and isolation.
To access the pathway of wholesome healing, you must first understand the reasons for the particular rejection that you are experiencing. And get your deliverance from it and move forward with your life. The love of God is the access code to unlock yourself from every hurt, pain and depressive state. You can use your tongue to either bless your life or curse it. I, at this moment, prescribe that you operate your tongue to bless your life, rise up from the slum of unproductive speaking over your life and start to cultivate your mindset with positive thinking.
