Why are we constantly bombarded with media images, self help books, and magazine articles telling us that people who are aggressive, intelligent, and beautiful are the only ones the opposite sex are interested in? There is something special and outstanding in EVERYONE, and sometimes we too easily forget to let others know what it is that makes us unique. There is NO REASON to change who you are to find someone special, all you have to do is bring that thing that makes you different to the surface, place yourself in an environment where people are most likely to notice and respond to that difference in you, and you will find success in your interpersonal relationships. The more you practice this technique, the more your confidence will build, and you will add more value to your life with every day that passes. OVERCOMING INSECURITY, MEETING THE RIGHT WOMAN, AND BUILDING SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS gives you the tools to bring the special person you ALREADY ARE to the surface, and helps you to find where people are going to respond to you most favorably. Too often we are told to change who we are to get what it is we desire, but there is someone already looking for you just the way you are, and this book will help you increase the odds of finding that person. Greatness comes in little tiny steps, not in leaps and bounds, and getting started on your way towards a meaningful and successful relationship means taking those tiny steps doing things you are already familiar with and sharing them with the world. You will soon find that there are others, usually many others, who want to share these experiences with you, and in the pages of OVERCOMING INSECURITY, MEETING THE RIGHT WOMAN, AND BUILDING SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS you will find easily understandable directions for beginning a journey that will only amplify the positive characteristics already in you. As these characteristics grow and shine out to the world, others will pick up on your new outlook on life and reflect it back to you, creating an upward spiral that will continually strengthen itself and grow as you reach more and more people. This will make each day more and more meaningful and rewarding, and as you give back more and more to the people around you, you will find that everything you like about yourself and others admire about you was inside of you the whole time. I hope you get as much meaning out of this book as I have tried to put into it. Richard Brighton, Esq.
About the Author: Richard Brighton attended Eastern Illinois University where he studied Psychology and Literature. A regular in the Chicago Rock scene both as a photographer and playing in several bands, he moved to Los Angeles in the 90's, where he discovered that the women of the Sunset Strip and the Beaches were a different kind than the undergraduate women from Loyola, UIC, and other Chicago schools, yet there were many similarities. Joining the Hollywood Rock and Roll scene, Richard played in many bands, filling in for touring national acts, local rock legends, and pick up bands with friends, all the time paying careful attention to why women responded to some men, while some men ALWAYS went home alone, wondering why "women just didn't like them". Figuring if he could get shallow, gold digging Hollywood Starlets to respond to broke, unknown, and socially inept friends of his by putting them in the right environment and with the right attitude, then this was a secret worth sharing with the world. This book is the result of years of research on that idea- And now it can be put to work for you, without having to make major life changes, without having to throw away your money on trying to fool anyone into thinking you're something you're not, and without thinking that there is some magic technique that will work on all women, because there isn't. The simple and easy to follow steps in this book will help you increase your confidence little by little, and after you get into the habit of applying them you will notice the change in the way people respond to you, and your life will become more rewarding than you thought it could be- something we all aspire to, but very few make the effort to actually do something about. This book is the first step in making that effort, and all you have to do is make small changes into habits, and those habits will turn into victories in every aspect of your life; romantic, financial, sexual, family, etc... EVERY part of your life suffers when you have insecurities, and while it's easy to fantasize about being a character in a movie, it's JUST as easy to make little differences in habits and traits we already possess, and after a little bit of time, those little changes will be BIG changes, and you'll find that the person you always wanted to be was in you all along.