Narcissism is one of the most controversial concepts of psychoanalysis, and it's easy to be trapped in a narcissistic relationship.If you've been living with a narcissist, you probably already had a good idea of what narcissism is. Anyway, let's talk about what a narcissist is, what makes them tick, and why they act the way they do. Once you have a better understanding of these aspects of your partner's personality, you will be better prepared to take and stand up for yourself and help your partner change into a more loving person.
In general, a narcissist is someone who needs people around to admire them. They feel that they are the most important person in the room, or even in the world, and so they expect everyone to act a certain way toward them because of it. They also have difficulty with empathy and are not able to relate to the fact that others have thoughts, feelings, and ideas independent of them.
But there are ways to deal with narcissism with someone you love, which is the purpose of this book.
Narcissist's favorite tool of control is Gaslighting.
How did it come to be the favorite tool of manipulation for a narcissist? These questions and many more other questions might have come to your mind as you turned to this page, and to understand what gaslighting is, and how it became a favorite tool in a narcissist's tool bag, it is necessary to consider how gaslighting came to be a term.
How to quit an emotionally destructive relationship with a narcissist?
You try to make yourself known, but your efforts seem doomed to fail. You seldom (if ever) feel seen or understood. Your perspective is ignored, and your feelings are invalidated. Your attempts to communicate fall flat. At times, you feel invisible, enraged, depressed, and humiliated.
You become locked in a battle for recognition. While the narcissist gazes longingly at the mirror, you gaze longingly at the narcissist. How is it that two opposite personalities are often attracted to each other?
At first glance, the combination of an empath and a narcissist in a relationship can spell disaster, which can definitely be the end result, though many relationships like these can function one toxic level or another, it's interesting to focus on why the two polar opposites are attracted to one another in the first place.
The empath fulfills a need in the narcissist, by giving them emotional support and admiration. This level of attention from an empath is deep and more intense than the average person, who may not express their feelings or desires as strongly.
The narcissist thrives on this because it plays in his/her sense of importance.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is possible.
Some examples of Narcissistic Abuses:
Love BombingSystematic lies
Never apologize
Future Faking: talk about a future that has no intention of realizing (going to live together, getting married, having children, etc ...)
Continually judge and criticize other
Create ad hoc quarrels
Do these situations sound familiar? Then this book is for you.
In this book we will discuss the following topics:
-The origin of Narcissism
-What Is Narcissistic Abuse
-How to find out if your partner is a narcissist
-Does a healthy narcissism exist? page 33
-The sneaky mechanism of Gaslighting
-How to overcoming loneliness page 214
-Say enough to your oppressor
-Healing from Toxic Relationships
What are you waiting for? Download this book now and escape from the cage!
