The modern American woman possesses a unique fascination with self-reflection that goes beyond her fashion choices. This phenomenon can be unsettling to observe, as constant self-reflection indicates a state of mental instability that can hinder one's enjoyment and performance. However, self-reflection is not the only manifestation of restlessness among American women.
They often find themselves engrossed in various activities without a clear purpose other than passing time, which may seem insignificant to an outsider. Their extravagant and ever-changing fashion choices, participation in numerous lectures and cultural activities, and eagerness to travel to distant places reflect a spirit that is dissatisfied with itself and lacks commitment to a specific path or important goal.
One particularly concerning aspect of this phenomenon is its close association with women's independence. Women seem to experience increased discomfort at a time when they have more freedom than ever before in human history, except perhaps for a certain era in ancient Egypt.
Those who view this restlessness negatively tend to perceive it as a new archetype in history. However, it's important to note that restlessness is a syndrome that affects individuals of all genders and is not exclusive to women. It affects everyone equally.
Nevertheless, society has always regarded this unease with apprehension, particularly when it manifests in esteemed and privileged individuals within sacred spaces. These spheres symbolize the pinnacle of human achievement and are the enduring results of our labor. We prefer to believe that they are unchangeable and that certain issues have been resolved. Consequently, women who epitomize restlessness are often disliked by society, and this response is understandable.
In the pursuit of conquering, understanding, and bringing order to nature and fellow humans, it becomes crucial to have a safe haven where one's mind finds peace and tranquility. Historically, women have been tasked with creating and maintaining this vital sanctuary. However, they have not always been able to construct and preserve it with complete satisfaction. Throughout history, rebellious women such as Eve and Medea have emerged, challenging societal norms and transforming the role of women. The various transformations marking different epochs in women's history have roots in their tormented souls.
Is there no peace to be found anywhere? Society has disapproved of this ceaseless agitation. John Adams' response to his wife Abigail's list of complaints, including the threat of a women's uprising if the Continental Congress did not take action, revealed a lack of understanding. He argued that due to the strain of the Revolution, everyone-children, apprentices, schools, universities, Native Americans, and African-Americans-had developed a bold and confrontational attitude. He questioned what would become of the nation if "the most numerous and powerful tribe in the world," women, were to grow dissatisfied.
There is a profound and tragic reason behind the historical restlessness displayed by women. Nature imposes an unavoidable demand on them, and if they do not willingly and wholly comply, they must endure discontent and erratic behavior. For the average woman, building the environment we commonly refer to as home brings fulfillment to life. This includes a spouse, children, friends, and all the responsibilities, pleasures, and challenges that come with these relationships.
