"I was a codependent, but codependency is not part of my present still". This statement could be yours if you are willing to. Are you too tired to handle dense, complex, and painful relationships? Are you ready to accept that relationships can be just simple and pleasant, and you deserve them as everybody else? Do you still think that giving up on codependency means making huge change in your personality?
When we are codependent, we feel wrong, and many others reinforce this, even those people who love us sincerely. "Change! Make it for you, make it for your kids, make it for your self-love..." Nice but empty words, they just drill our mind.
Changing people is a pure illusion, changing others is impossible, and changing ourselves takes too long and is too damned difficult, we normally fail and that's normal.
Above all, who on earth can decide if one is wrong? Is that person the right one? We are unique people, how can a unique person be wrong?
A few but proven statements accompany this book:
- Codependency is intrinsic of relationships and not of a single person. Healing from codependency does not mean changing our being and, for sure, our genetics have nothing to do.
- If we change our relationship style, codependency fades on its own, narcissists and their sentimental abuses vanish by themselves; criticisms and that kind of "permanent confusion" become a memory.
- Codependency hides a very beautiful side of human nature, that is, giving love and being useful to each other. They are both noble things to preserve
In this book you will learn how to change your relationships with others in a clear, structured and permanent way. Let me underline this: Once and Forever!
Too good to be true? Things are easier than they seem, and sometimes we just need to accept that no personal growth is a trivial process but we succeed step by step, being tender with our mistakes during the process, being proud of our achievements, and being open to be protagonists of this mysterious thing called life.
Sometimes, we can heal by ourselves, sometimes we need specialistic support, sometimes we just need to see in a book if we really are codependent and what it could mean for us.
This book is the opposite of a "5-step guide to be happy". It's a deep trip into our fascinating codependent nature. it's a nice tool to switch on the light, and to watch where life scares us but it should not.
I am a psychologist, and I was a codependent; this book is part of my life, codependency is part of my past. I am so excited to share all my vicissitudes and my studies with you as ways to make them transcend in your life too. Click "Buy Now", I am waiting for you inside.
Melody Melwood
