Striving to continue to have what our 1st lady (soon former first lady Michelle L. Obama and her incredible astute #realman in her life, her prudent and amazing man, her soulmate/life partner/her wonderful spouse Barack have, as i know my man always say, "We are going to remain just like them, and be like them, Mami, you will see." My man is great. He always say this to me and i am always warm inside/with happiness when he do. We, Freedom and I, are in sync as he says, i love to hear that Mami. But, we truly owe it to God. - We owe it all to GOD above, hope, faith while we continue to build what we know we can have together starting out and keeping the daily foundation of our rare friendship and prayer, and our faith at the forefront before anything else. - Me and my partner met while M.W.I., and it only will work for some, not all. We understand with God's help what we have, and we are not taking it for granted. - Our rare genuine #reallove not fake love as the song goes, but our REAL love, or as mi bebe, my G-man, my fiancee, my bff, Freedom remind me so much we have an emotional, spiritual, Soul 2 Soul connection, that many will never in life have. - WE BOTH REMAIN CELIBATE. SO PROUD OF THAT. No regrets. Yes... Love-making is inevitable... But, we are taking it slow. A few couples come to mind who practiced being celibate and their faith first and foremost and that is in my opinion, such a meaningful beautiful thing to be in life.#CELIBATE... - Too much risk out here in the "real"world when you are with numerous partners, std's sometimes do not show up for years on end. Not worth it. Meagan Good, the actress + her supportive loyal husband had practice celibacy as others. I personally am happy to be a celibate woman with my bff/fiancee'soon to be husband this year coming up.He is just as happy to be celibate, even if this part of our book, once reading might befuddle some. . . - But, many men are actually practicing celibacy, and i love how he is with me while doing it... No rush for us.As my man say,"We deeper than that mami." I agree.Powerful mind sex and beautiful visions of us in OUR bed, without rush...without fear if we do not sleep together "immediate-then we will cheat on each other." - Farthest thing from our minds, when we both and GOD know what we want hence, worth waiting for.Dead Prez talked about #MindSex "we don't have to take our clothes off yet, let's burn some incense, and just chat."Song should have went mainstream, but for us real hip hop heads, who love #realhiphop we know about Dead Prez, and the message on 'Black Rose' and the song as a whole speaking to me and my BFF my fiancee' as we continue on our rare journey that involves, til' married, our beautiful celibacy." - Both of us have been through much. We know we are OK with practicing celibacy, and are sharing with the world, and those also who met by way of MWI(meeting while incarcerated)who think that it can't work for you, trust us...We are living proof that you're able to make your MWI relationship work, if it's real and being celibate can in many ways enhance your relationship in ways a more "sexual partner" can at times, complicate it.For us, it just works. When we decide to give our most beautiful part of us, (after giving our heart to each other)but the 2nd beautiful part of us, (our inside/our bodies)it will be a moment during this rare beautiful journey that only shall allow both of us to grow in our marriage/our union eternally. To those who don't know #LEARN ABOUT IT and live a much healthier life when you're practicing celibacy... No rush..Teasing...Pleasing...with our minds until the 1 night that shall consummate our marriage + our union T.D.D.U.P. (til'death do us part) as my fiancee' remind me,"Our bond emotional and spiritual is much more "stronger than us having fast sex/quick sex. He and i have a 1 of a kind bond, that will take us to places, we have not been to as one and we are proud to be remain happily celibate.
About the Author: Author, leader, visionary, artist in nyc, a fiancee, to a wonderful man, who has allowed me to trust a man again after a very long time, and commit to a life of celibacy without judgement/without rushing, but to patiently wait, until BOTH of us as mature grown couple, without drama, without negative in our blessed-by-GOD union, to wait until the time is right, for us, to consummate our relationship, while remaining focus on most important...Being happy and building, creating, working hard to have and to sustain as my fiancee' Freedom says, "What Barack and Michelle have." and that is simply #R