Isn't celibacy hard?
People always ask me "Isn't staying celibate hard?" This is my response. "The first month was hard...The first year was hard, but now it's easy." So the real question is, "how bad do you want it?"
Becoming Celibate is like learning how to ride a bike...
Learning to ride a bike for the first time when you were a kid, was "hard" but, you didn't give up! You knew other kids were riding bikes, and you wanted to experience that "sense of freedom" of riding a bike, on your own.
The long term rewards are the prize!
Becoming Celibate is not easy when you first start, but the long term "rewards" of success of staying celibate, outweigh the "difficulty" of getting there.
So what is your reason for choosing to be celibate?
What is the reason you want to be celibate? That is what you should focus on. Not on how hard it must be to maintain celibacy. As believers, we know that God is strong. Lean on God for support, by reading his words. God makes all things that seem impossible...possible!
Candid confessions about past love sex and relationships
I speak candidly in this book about my past. So if you are offended by reading about a person's feelings, emotions and experiences related to sex, relationships and hooking up, don't read this book. However if you think it might be interesting and informative to learn from a now "celibate woman's" perspective, then you may really enjoy reading this book.
If you dislike reading about God...
If you dislike reading about God, don't read this book. God is a big part of my life and my major reason and inspiration for becoming celibate. I would not call myself "Christian" but I am definitely a believer. You may have found this book in a "Christian" section. Regarding my faith, I just say, "I believe in God."
