If and when people start dating, there are countless questions about the early stages: "Does he/she like me? "Is this going to work out? "How bad is that?
"Unfortunately, in the intervening stages of a marital relationship, these issues appear not to subside. In reality, anxiety can get even more severe when things get closer between a few. Thoughts like: "Will it be the last? "Do I want him/her? "They ought to slow down? "Am I ready for such an undertaking? "Does he/she/it lose interest? "All this concern for our relationships can make us feel pretty lonely. This can bring about distance or separation from our partner. At its worst, our insecurity can even lead us to give up entirely on love. Knowing about the causes and consequences of relationship insecurity can enable us to recognize the negative thoughts and behaviors that can weaken our love lives. How can we test our anxiety and be vulnerable to someone we love?
To resolve uncertainty about relationships, we must turn our attention inward. However, we have to look at what is happening within us independently from our partner or our partnership. What critical internal voices intensify our fears? What defenses do we have that can build distance? This self-discovery process can be a crucial step to understanding the emotions that drive our actions and eventually form our relationship. By looking at our past, we will gain a more in-depth insight into the root of these feelings. Like knowing what caused us to feel insecure or turned against love? You will begin this process for yourself by learning about the fear of intimacy and how your vital internal voice can be recognized and overcome.
TAKE YOUR COPY - Anxiety in Relationship for couples: Essential guide to make effective communication in love, overcome couple conflicts and build your life happy without therapy
No matter how secure your partner is, the constant anxiety, frustrations, neediness, fears, and worries of the anxiously attached person will eventually seep into the relationship.
As they are more likely to pick dismissive or avoidant partners, there is another layer of issues added to the relationship interactions.
You must learn to understand how your insecure behaviors affect your partner, and other people you interact with.
Things You will also learn in the book include:
- Anxiety
- Insecurity
- Negative Thoughts
- Conflict in relationships
- More....
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TAKE YOUR COPY - Anxiety in Relationship for couples: Essential guide to make effective communication in love, overcome couple conflicts and build your life happy without therapy
