Silke NiggemeierSilke Niggemeier (Lola De Milo) is a systemic family therapist (IGST), systemic sex therapist (IFSEX, IGST) NLP coach (DVNLP), mediator, BDSM activist, educator and multimedia artist, long-standing member on the board of the oldest registered ssociation for kinksters in Germany/Europe (SMart-Rhein-Ruhr e.V.) and board member of the German Society for Social Scientific Sexual Research (DGSS) 30+ years of kink experience, public speaking, event organizing and her general interest in how humans function and love, brought her to Kink Is. Silke Niggemeier coined the terms Consensual Emotional Voyeurism (CEV) and Emotional Voyeurism (EV) and published on this subject internationally. Read More Read Less