Lola PhoenixLola Phoenix runs the popular weekly relationship advice column and podcast, Non-Monogamy Help and has been non-monogamous for over a decade. Their writing has appeared in Medium, Huffington Post, Pink News, Gay Star News, the Independent, and Everydy Feminism. They often give talks and presentations on relationships and LGBTQIA+ issues and have been interviewed for Attitude, Buzzfeed, and the Independent. The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy is their first book. Read More Read Less